Well it’s about that time to throw on some cute shoes and something shimmery and paint the town red — it’s the weekend, baby! But first, how are you all doing? I’m loving my new life here, I feel so energized by the sheer newness of it all. I’m well aware that the honeymoon period will eventually come to its lusty end, but for now I’m gathering all the breadcrumbs and bits that I can as I explore my new surroundings spending hours perusing grocery store aisles and drug stores trying to translate everything because nothing is in English here (not even as a second language — when it is, it is in French!).
A funny experience I had was in the local grocery store tonight, if you are American you’ll understand this… You know how in America we have a salad dressing called “Russian” dressing? It’s sort of flesh-toned peach and in my opinion, pretty gross. Well in Germany, they have this exact same dressing and you know it’s not called Russian dressing here. It’s called American dressing. Why? I have no clue. And after visiting about 100 stores, I finally found a can of peanut butter imported from America. It’s a small jar but good enough for me because I rarely eat it but it’s nice to know I at least can have it if I want too. Imagine walking into ONE American store without finding PB? Simply not possible!
The sheer experience of living as an expat in a foreign country is beyond my wildest dreams. I still sit here thinking, pinch me, did this all really just happen? If you’ve been following me for some time you know that I’ve wanted to live in Europe since I was pretty young and in my 20′s I set a goal for myself to eventually land here. Then I really started working towards this goal years back and now I AM HERE. I’m happy I settled on Germany, my husband and I entertained the option of other countries in the EU or other cities within Germany but this is the city where I feel the fit – and if the shoe fits my friends, you cannot wear anything else!
I hope that for any of you reading this blog entry right now, who have big dreams for yourself but feel like you are pretty far from reaching them, or perhaps that they’re unattainable altogether please please please let me be your example that if you want something bad enough, and work towards it, you will ultimately find yourself either reaching the goal or even another one you hadn’t thought you had until you started walking towards the initial one.
Who was it that said “a journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step”? Well it’s very, very true.
We often want it all, and we want it now (or yesterday). But the good stuff in life takes patience to cultivate but come harvest time, you will see that the wait was absolutely worth every ticking minute on the clock that you endured, sometimes painfully. And now I find myself setting new goals since reaching this one, my confidence is soaring more than before, and I feel like since I was able to do this then I can certainly reach the next goal that I’ve set for myself and so on. And I have many new goals that I’ll share with you in the months ahead.
There is no magic formula when it comes to happy living and reaching goals. I am saying this to encourage you because I get emails from a lot of amazing people who are frustrated, drained, even ready to give up because they feel like life isn’t giving them what they’d hoped for. I understand these feelings so well. I often looked upon people who I deemed a success and felt like they must have some help, a rich family, connections, money, something that made them different from me so that I could justify why I didn’t have what they did. Then I started to see that the one thing I needed was inside of me — I just needed to ignite the fire — the passion that I had for certain things and then set goals and go for them. When you have passion that is sincere, nothing can stop you and this is a confirmed fact whenever you find a successful person living an authentic, happy life. The key is to figure out your passion and set goals and with time and consistency, you can be those whom you envy. You can stop watching others live your dreams.
None of us are outsiders when it comes to living our life, there is no glass to look through — we are in fact living it right here, right now — this is not a dress rehearsal, this is real life as I once heard. And it’s true. There is no future time when you or I are officially allowed to live our life and be joyous and happy in doing so. And hey, I’m not stuck in some fantasy happy-joy land where life is always perfect. I get frustrated, annoyed, angry, depressed… just like you do. But the key is to stay positive, afloat, make progress, move forward and to not allow yourself to stay in a rut once you’ve taken a fall into one.
Why am I writing all this on a Friday? Pretty heavy stuff, huh? Hey, it’s the weekend, time to live it up and have some fun! But with all of my heart I wanted to say these things simply because you are my friends and this is what friends do, talk to one another openly and freely when certain chatty moments hit. I guess this was my chatty moment.
In closing, I want to say that I am so lucky to have you to share this experience of relocating with. I cannot imagine not being a blogger and doing all of this without the support and comfort (and advice!) of my friends online. I love you all so, so much and thank you for supporting decor8 and making this move possible for me because in a way, you have. I’m working freelance as a writer because of your support and this newfound career as a writer/blogger since 2006 has paved many fantastic roads for me and I greatly owe this to my husband and family and next, to all of you.
I’ll be back again next week, part-time as I still have a slew of favorite things guests that want their turn to share (big smile), but I’ll still be here writing from time-to-time and sharing as I am able. I’m still working on legal paperwork and banking stuff and a bunch of other appointments but it’s all starting to level out now as I’ve been getting so much accomplished working only 30 hours a week. Again, thank you for giving me the time that I need to settle in. Have you been enjoying my guests? I edit all posts and read all comments, and I’m gathering that you are indeed enjoying them based on your feedback but I thought I’d ask anyway. :) It’s so important to me that you are continually inspired and that your soul is fed with good positive energy while I’m out and about. You deserve those things.
See you on Monday, make this weekend a good one! x0 Holly
(image: holly becker for decor8)
August 21st, 2009 at 5:08 pm
I moved to Hamburg from Oregon three and a half years ago and i still have strong honeymoon moments. Germany is Europe’s best kept secret. Genieß es! And if you need any tips on hard to find American extravagancies, (like baking soda) please don’t hesitate to ask.
August 21st, 2009 at 5:14 pm
Thanks for the inspiration, Holly! So happy to hear that this is not only a successfully transition for you, but also the culmination of a dream. Heading off now to keep putting one foot in front of another…
.-= Autumn´s last blog ..Custom Printing Listing for Bridget =-.
August 21st, 2009 at 5:14 pm
Aw, thanks Holly. I needed this.
Have a great weekend xo.
p-b
.-= lisa h.´s last blog ..I love summer storms. =-.
August 21st, 2009 at 5:15 pm
I’m so happy for you Holly! Enjoy every minute of it:)
Cheers,
Noelle
.-= pinkbathtub´s last blog ..In the home studio with Marisa Haedike of Creative Thursday. =-.
August 21st, 2009 at 5:19 pm
What a truly inspiring post. Thank you for sharing so openly your thoughts on living the life you dreamed of and the steps you took to make it happen. Congratulations to you…I can’t wait to hear what’s next.
Aby
August 21st, 2009 at 5:20 pm
Thanks Holly for your words!! And you know what?? I can “see” your change since you’re there in Germany. I’m mean in a good way :)
Wish you a great weekend!! (Oh God!!!! wish I could say all that I think and feel in a good english!!)
.-= georgina´s last blog ..renovando =-.
August 21st, 2009 at 5:23 pm
Truer words could not have been spoken. Thanks for the Friday lift! Staying positive amidst the uncertainty and risk of working toward your goals comes from believing in yourself. Keeping the seeds of doubt from taking root is the key for me. I appreciate the reminder! Happy weekend and congratulations!!
.-= daisy janie´s last blog ..flower snaps =-.
August 21st, 2009 at 5:26 pm
You’re an inspiration, Holly!
.-= Jen´s last blog ..Cooper’s Dog. =-.
August 21st, 2009 at 5:26 pm
beautiful words. thanks for sharing Holly. btw, I had the same pb experience while I was living in Berlin! I remember thinking, “what?! NO PEANUT BUTTER!!” haha! the same went with hot dog/hambuger buns and ketchup. My brother and I used to call the ketchup “spicy red.” We just couldn’t call it ketchup. good luck!!
August 21st, 2009 at 5:34 pm
Vielen Dank Holly for this tidbit of inspiration. I am in the midst of a huge project at the moment and really just want to stop, take a break, and just forget it all. Your post helped remind me this is what I wanted, so I have to work just as hard as I did at the beginning to complete it. Thanks for the pep talk. :)
Also, the quote is by Lao Tzu. I keep that quote right by my desk, ironically enough!
August 21st, 2009 at 5:35 pm
How inspiring. Good on you. There is nothing more stimulating than a new country, new language, new people, its all the same on the surface but slightly different, just like the Russian dressing. You will keep having those surreal moments I am sure.
.-= Jane´s last blog ..…with a view =-.
August 21st, 2009 at 5:38 pm
Holly…so glad you had a safe trip and that you are loving it there! I’m so behind here but will be sending you an email soon! Thanks for such a lovely blog!
.-= Marsha Mifsud´s last blog ..and the winner is… =-.
August 21st, 2009 at 5:38 pm
Holly, what inspiring words, which I’ve needed to hear (read). We don’t know each other yet I feel like your words were directed to me personally. Thank you. Enjoy your weekend.
August 21st, 2009 at 5:39 pm
Thank you for the inspiring post!
And YES I have been thoroughly enjoying the guests and their favourite things! It’s been fun to have a tiny peek into the lives of these creative people. Great work everyone!
.-= Amie´s last blog ..It’s Tea Time! =-.
August 21st, 2009 at 5:39 pm
Holly, you are always so inspiring! I can just feel your inspiration and positive energy coming from this! Thank you for your encouraging words. Have a wonderful weekend!!
August 21st, 2009 at 5:43 pm
Awesome post Holly! I’ve learned (specially in the last couple of years) that the more I say my goals ‘out loud’ the more chances I have of them coming true. There is something to be said about really ‘owning’ what you want to accomplish. So happy for you and your husband! :)
.-= patricia´s last blog ..martha stewart came calling… sort of =-.
August 21st, 2009 at 5:44 pm
Hi Holly,
I am fairly new to Decor8 and am so glad I found it. I have been reading consistently since Steven (Steven’s Happy Accidents) was one of your guests and I love it! I had to comment on today’s post as I feel energised just reading it so thanks! I am glad things are going well for you in your newly adopted country-so exciting! Good luck with everything. Oh, and I love the guest feature!
Sarah
.-= Sarah Wallis´s last blog ..Bathroom =-.
August 21st, 2009 at 5:49 pm
oh holly,
everything you say is so damn true … life consists of ups and downs and that is good, because you can onlygrow by challenges.
we want to even just self-employed and in times of global economic crisis … but he what if you do not follow your heart … it’s so important to hear to your heart … there were many situations in my life, where I had to make things that I simply could not do it because something in me that ruffled … I just could not …
and that was good … because it gave me routes that I otherwise never would have …
you are right we should pursue our goals with all our passion … because only one may come and then what will you have it in every instance tries …… here in germany we say ( even perhaps in america, too): when a door somewhere close, then go to another … this is the life …
you are talking to me from the heart, holly … it’s unbelievable, what a passion is to feel in your words … there’s a lot of heart and touched many … love and thanks and we wish you a magical weekend in the circles of your loves
ines(this is much personal…:-)) from frauheuberg (… i love your guest bloggers, too … all are wonderful and fascinating personalities…good job by all of them…thanks, too)
.-= frauheuberg´s last blog ..…summer.pop.shopping…berlin 2009 =-.
August 21st, 2009 at 5:55 pm
i felt the same way–after moving from manila to california! :)
August 21st, 2009 at 5:59 pm
Hola Holly,
Well what a piece!! Thanks just what I need it to hear after nearly 2 weeks off sick at home with a nasty flu. Today I felt so frustrated at the fact that i have to cancel a craft fair happening tomorrow that I worked so hard for, because of me being ill. I truly believe what u say but sometimes I forget about it!!
I have been following the guess posts and enjoying them very much, I am so glad u are well in Germany, u seem to be embracing the Germans way of life and enjoying all the new things, customs etc…
Regards from sunny London
Marga
.-= Margarita Lorenzo´s last blog ..So much inspiration…In The SELBY… =-.
August 21st, 2009 at 6:06 pm
I also want to thank you – that was a jolt of goodness and inspiration for me today. Appreciate it so much!!
.-= Jamie Watson´s last blog ..Kauai no ka ‘oi =-.
August 21st, 2009 at 6:08 pm
Well said, Holly! What a wonderful post! I was just writing about living our dreams yesterday on my blog. It’s so easy to get caught up in what we haven’t achieved that we forget to notice all that we have. I really have to tell you that you have been a huge inspiration to my husband and me. I’ve been following your blog for years and watching all the beautiful finds that you show us day after day, week after week. I never imagined that I could open my own shop and wasn’t even sure what I would put in it! Somewhere along our journey here in Morocco our creativity came alive in a whole new way and we find ourselves living out our dreams in ways that we never thought possible! We are one of those that started on our journey thinking we were heading one direction only to have life turned upside down… it keeps things interesting, don’t you think?
Enjoy the honeymoon… it can actually last a very long time! Oh, and I have a recipe for homemade peanut butter that I have been meaning to post. I will let you know when I do! It is so simple it’s ridiculous!
Hugs from Morocco!
.-= Travelingmama´s last blog ..saying hello and an announcement! =-.
August 21st, 2009 at 6:23 pm
Thanks for sharing this with us! It definitely knocks one out of the “whoa is me” feeling, to hear that the people that you admire as being successful have struggled with, and occasionally still do struggle with, all the same things that I do. What a great reminder to keep taking things one baby step at a time, and move towards your goals.
Allison
.-= Allison´s last blog ..Mood Board: Dining Room/Office =-.
August 21st, 2009 at 6:28 pm
Holly,
I really appreciate your words! Tomorrow is my b’day, and I’ve been feeling a little down tonight — feeling rather stuck and not happy about where I am at the moment. But your post was the reminder I needed that dreams are definitely achievable, and we should never give up on moving toward those things that make life worth living. I’m pleased for you that you are experiencing life in a new country. I have only ever lived in the US, but I’ve moved about a bit and have always felt revitalized each time I landed in a new place. Best wishes & thanks again for the uplifting message!
.-= Beth´s last blog ..Funky Friday ~ August 21st =-.
August 21st, 2009 at 6:45 pm
I recall a store in a European city, may have been Amsterdam, Berlin or Copenhagen, that sold only American products like Jiff and typical cereals. If I remember, or if anyone else knows which place I’m referring to, I’ll let you know!
.-= Alicia´s last blog ..runner for the hallway =-.
August 21st, 2009 at 7:22 pm
I’ve had a less-than-stellar week and this post definitely increased my optimism! Thanks! (By the way, I love the guest posts.)
August 21st, 2009 at 7:23 pm
This is why I read decor8, Holly – because of *you*! You set such a positive, inspiring example, and I am so happy for you accomplishing a major life-long dream!
And yes, I have been really enjoying the guest posts! I appreciate all of the work it must have taken to coordinate all of that!! And I have discovered quite a few new voices, artists, bloggers, etc. from the guests you have featured, which has been awesome.
.-= Laura Gaskill´s last blog ..Sweet Obsessions Friday =-.
August 21st, 2009 at 7:33 pm
Thank you so much for this post. I have a few goals right now that seem unattainable, so your words made me tear up a little. You’re right, perseverance is key.
.-= Little Gray Pixel´s last blog ..Flickr Fridays: #36 =-.
August 21st, 2009 at 7:38 pm
you have no idea how much I needed this.
.-= Haley´s last blog ..Cardboard love =-.
August 21st, 2009 at 8:08 pm
Hi Holly…this is wonderful. I loved to read. It inspired me to write something about myself. Thank you!
Moving to a different country can be hard, it was for me in the past and today I am happy being here. I used to miss Brazil a lot in the beggining, the food and culture. I still do but after years, USA is my place. My kids were born here, my home and heart is here. My best wishes for you!
.-= Zee´s last blog ..Making and Applying Textures to Photographs =-.
August 21st, 2009 at 8:08 pm
Hi Holly
I often want to leave comments on your blog, but haven’t until now. I discovered your blog when I moved from New Jersey to South Korea, and couldn’t get my ‘fix’ of English design magazines. Your blog makes me appreciate the little things around me even if I don’t enjoy the big picture I am living right now. Moving originally from New Zealand to New Jersey was a bit of culture shock, and moving here was even more so. In a few weeks I am going back New Zealand again for the first time in 5 years, and then in April next year we move to Wuppertal, Germany. I was hugely apprehensive about going, but having read your experiences and felt your excitement, I am now so geared up to go, explore, experience and love it. Thank you so so so very much. You are indeed an inspiration and so much fun to visit every day.
August 21st, 2009 at 8:15 pm
Yes, I thank you as well. You don’t know how much!
August 21st, 2009 at 8:43 pm
Holly,
Truly a great post. I am constantly inspired by you and your blog and I thank you for sharing your thoughts. It’s always great to hear success stories of people following their dreams. It makes people like me feel like we will be there one day. :)
Thanks again.
Katie
.-= Katie´s last blog ..up to speed =-.
August 21st, 2009 at 11:00 pm
It’s exciting that you are living your dream! I am happy for you. Thanks for the encouragement, sometimes I feel like I’m just spinning my wheels not going anywhere! I know it’s important to not give up…..it’s good to hear from someoone else though :)
Tschuss
August 21st, 2009 at 11:18 pm
So nice to hear that you have been following your dreams and loving your new place. :o)
I love this post because it is as inspiring as ever. I just have a few questions in mind. What if you are not sure of your passion? Or simply put, you have too many passions in life that you have and you do not know which one to follow or focus. I am in a crossroad where there are too many choices and each one seemed to be the one for me. how am i able to single them out and follow? or should i just follow all of them, one step at a time? what if in my country’s context, setting up your business meant that u have to sacrifice a lot of things? Sleep, money, relationships and many others? In my country, it is not really possible to set up something you want because everyone has to consider the expensive rentals of shops. My country is not conducive. But the same can be said for other countries. I really don’t know what to do anymore.
Sorry for having too many questions here. a bit longwinded.
Thanks for hearing me out.
Ah Teo
.-= ah Teo´s last blog ..Year Uno =-.
August 22nd, 2009 at 12:23 am
oh, how i desperately needed these words at this exact moment in my life. thank you.
August 22nd, 2009 at 12:41 am
thank you for the inspiration. i too have had dreams of being an expat–I think since I was a child! This was before I understood what countries and borders were. I just knew that I wanted to live where there were forests and castles (and possibly unicorns and fairies). I am pretty settled in LA now but still, perhaps, one day…
.-= elsie´s last blog ..Martha & Henri =-.
August 22nd, 2009 at 2:44 am
how much i needed this.i want to go visit the world and livee either in france, either england one day.this just made me realize that i have to work opn it and i’ll get it.by the way, can you explain me the concept of freelance as a writer?:)thanks.have a nice weekend.
August 22nd, 2009 at 3:00 am
I couldn’t help but smile as I read your comment about searching for peanut butter! I’m an American and have lived in Europe for 10 years now – 5 in Paris, 4 in Amsterdam and currently reside in Berlin and I love the European life and could identify with many of the things you said today. The thing that amazes me is 10 years into expat life, Americans upon 1st meeting me will often ask my nationality, which cracks me up, but though my appearance has been europeanized, my speech patterns changed by living a life speaking a foreign language poorly or my native language slowly so foreigners can understand me, the girl underneath the facade is still the same! I still, 10 years later, get cravings for PBJ! Which, by the way, Holland sells EXCELLENT Peanut Butter – with the brand Calve! And I still fill half a suitcase when I’m in America of things I can’t get in Europe (or refuse to pay export prices for in Europe!). You’re on a wonderful journey Decor8! Peace, blessings and prosperity in your new world! I can’t wait to read how this changes you and what you find will always stay the same! Now go eat a PBJ, and I might do the same!
Toma
.-= The Antiques Diva´s last blog ..Fall France Brocante and Art Market Calendar Update =-.
August 22nd, 2009 at 3:33 am
I totally understand what you’re going through. I’m from Belgium and I was a foreign exchange student in Janesville Wisconsin a couple of years ago. I remember when I wanted to cook for my hostfamily that it was impossible to find good chocolate (10 years ago), fresh vegetables in the winter, decent bread, and so on.
And when I came back to Belgium, I was totally Americanized and than it was impossible to find American ingredients. Everytime I see a box of Oreo cookies now, I feel like a little kid that just received some candy!
Enjoy Germany! And I some day you get to Belgium in the Flemish part, go to a butcher and ask for “filet Americain”. You will be quiet surprised ;-)
Enjoy,
Miss Ninie
.-= Miss-Ninie´s last blog ..Meeko =-.
August 22nd, 2009 at 4:36 am
Hi Holly
Congratulations on a successful move and thanks for your inspiring words! I’m embarking on my own journey of change. Having just finished reading Eat Pray Love (where the writer has a similar experience to my own) I’ve been quite envious of the ability to head off to foreign lands to start anew and find yourself. With two small (and beautiful, wonderful, loving…) children to look after, it’s not quite so easy for me. But I was moved by your encouragement to think big and to start on the journey of possibilities, rather than getting weighed down by the obstacles!
Many thanks for being so open, generous and so full of grace and beauty!
Rachael
August 22nd, 2009 at 6:36 am
What a beautifully worded post. I so enjoy your blog and wish you nothing but the best for your new endeavor.
August 22nd, 2009 at 6:48 am
Nice post Holly! And a great week end start…by the way, I am a new follower of decor 8 but since i discovered it, I Must visit at least once a day and I am enjoining your guest so much! It’s awesome to know more about these amazing, inspiring people…have a nice week end!xo
August 22nd, 2009 at 7:05 am
I’m almost speachless. Sitting here reading blogs, a bit frustrated about the summer being over, not knowing if my life is going in the right direction. And just fell into your text. That was exactly what I was looking for. A reminder of my dreams, and the importance of setting up goals. No matter what goes on in my life I know the one thing I want, that I’ve always wanted, and it is to sometime, somehow find a life for me in the US. Thank you so much for the inspiration! Looking forward to reading more about your life in Germany and hoping to some day being able to tell you about my life in NYC :)
August 22nd, 2009 at 7:46 am
What a beautiful post. Thank you.
.-= Rachelle´s last blog ..exciting new book and blog! =-.
August 22nd, 2009 at 8:31 am
As a newbie blogger – thank you SO, SO, SO MUCH for this post! One day, I am so excited and inspired about design blogging, and the next I wonder what the hell I was ever thinking. Your words are so encouraging to me at a time when I feel like I have no idea what I’m doing.
Cant wait to hear more about your new life!
.-= Jennifer´s last blog ..Swoon =-.
August 22nd, 2009 at 9:32 am
This may sound weird but I feel almost as if you’re a future version of me. Ever since I was little I’ve always wanted to live in Australia, I seriously want to get myself there one day, even for just a visit but I know that won’t be enough. I feel like I need to live there, I just have to. Its almost a part of me at this point.
August 22nd, 2009 at 9:59 am
I have so enjoyed living vicariously through you during your big move and I hope that one day in the not-so-distant future, I’ll be livin’ the dream, too :-)
as always, thanks for the inspiration!!
August 22nd, 2009 at 10:06 am
Thanks for the reminder and reinforcement. Reaching your dreams take planning and action, but also patience.
Just because you have achieved them yet doesn’t mean you haven’t made giant strides towards reaching those goals.
August 22nd, 2009 at 12:07 pm
You’re so inspiring. Danke. I haven’t been keeping up with my crafts but I’m feeling more motivated every day — your post made a big difference!
Yes, I have enjoyed the guests on you blog! Thanks for sharing such wonderful people and their favorite things!!!
.-= Genelle´s last blog ..Springtime Blooms and Windowboxes Card =-.
August 22nd, 2009 at 12:28 pm
Holly, thank you so much for sharing so sincerely what´s going on in your life …as everyone else said it was truly inspiring and energizing!
I totally agree with you and I can´t wait to keep on going after my dreams and goals and conceiving new ones.
I am so jealous that you´re living in Europe! (in a good way though)… Good luck with everything!
P.S. I love everything about your blog :)
August 22nd, 2009 at 12:53 pm
Hey! I don’t usually comment but– I’m also American and I just spent a year living in Germany– and I hope someday like you’ll I’ll live there permanently. Anyway, I found that Asian grocery stores were WONDERFUL– they have loads of stuff commonly available in the US but very $$$ in Germany– i.e. peanut butter (I think a big jar was around EUR 1,80), cilantro, and tofu, plus really cheap spices and other fun stuff.
August 22nd, 2009 at 1:24 pm
New reader here & I must say, I love your blog. It’s very inspiring, especially when you write encouraging words like this. Thank you :)
August 22nd, 2009 at 1:56 pm
tres bien, have a very nice weekend holly
August 22nd, 2009 at 3:23 pm
Forget peanut butter…Nutella!!!!!! :)
.-= Carrie´s last blog ..The Return of the Bells =-.
August 22nd, 2009 at 5:56 pm
I’m sure I’m not the first to tell you that you are inspiring. I’m enjoying following your new adventures. Enjoy painting the town this weekend….
.-= CherryTreeLane´s last blog ..“The world’s mine oyster…” =-.
August 22nd, 2009 at 6:31 pm
Nice text :-). We do have in Germany most of the products you are searching for, any bigger grocery shop have now an american corner and if there are none of them in your “Viertel” you can order online, some 300 american products
http://www.gourmondo.de/Produkt-Uebersicht/Amerika/NN-380000?p=1
I live in frankfurt and find PB in any bigger shop.
Nice inspiring text :-)
August 22nd, 2009 at 8:31 pm
Holly, very eloquently put! As an entrepreneur, I struggle with “following my dreams” and “it’s so hard” a lot. But to follow our passions, to do what we love, to not give up…we only get one chance, and you never want to look back and say “What if?” Congrats on reaching your dream AND not stopping there!
August 23rd, 2009 at 4:40 am
Carrie – Oh yes, Nutella is amazing… but my new favorite “treat” on toast is Belmandel. YUM!!!!!
August 23rd, 2009 at 4:50 am
I love your blog. Your posts are very enjoyable. Thanks!
August 23rd, 2009 at 4:53 am
Inspiring post Holly and such a beautiful blog you have. Enjoy this new adventure. I was fortunate to live in England for a while and it was one of the most incredible experiences of my life, lack of peanut butter and all. I’ve added your link icon to my new blog (closed at the moment ’cause I’m simply too busy to care for it). ?
.-= Betty Jo´s last blog ..it’s official =-.
August 23rd, 2009 at 5:19 am
Wonderful reading about your experiences as you discover your new city. As a foreign student in the US, I had many such moments. Although, here in Dubai, the world seems a very small place.
.-= shalini´s last blog ..photo: among the clouds =-.
August 23rd, 2009 at 8:33 am
You’re completely inspiring and I’m thrilled at how happy you are in your new life!
I have really enjoyed your guest bloggers, btw.
.-= Passementerie´s last blog ..Married to the Sea =-.
August 23rd, 2009 at 11:26 am
Thank you for being an inspiration. I know I’ve felt stuck and I learn from people who have followed their dream. I lost my job in a museum that I worked for for over 11 years. I’m still doing some freelance work there but you know what? I wasn’t upset when I left because there are so many things I want to do and I’m trying not to get discouraged even though I haven’t found the key to success with my art work on etsy and haven’t had enough time to concentrate on career sideline “B” but I’m trying and I’m feeling more creative and that’s what is important. Now I’m trying to encourage my husband to do the same because he’s been fantastic with me through all of this and now I think it is his turn to get out of a rut. Thanks for sharing your journey.
.-= Eileen´s last blog ..Day 20-21 ? – August 11 and 17, 2009 =-.
August 23rd, 2009 at 12:50 pm
Thanks for sharing Holly! Your truly are an inspiration! I agree with you completely. Sometimes you just have to take that leap of faith and hope all of the pieces fall into place. I too made a big move 3 years ago… not to another country (that’s on the list though and your story has inspired me even more to not give up on it) but I made the move cross country from a small town in Northern California to NYC and I haven’t looked back since. 3 years later and the honeymoon period has not ended. Here’s to your honeymoon never ending! And congratulations on reaching on our your dreams =) Thank you for all your daily inspiration!!!
.-= Fallon´s last blog ..A Day in Brooklyn… =-.
August 23rd, 2009 at 1:44 pm
Thanks, Holly, for the inspiring post. I was in need of a reminder like that! Congrats on your move.
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August 23rd, 2009 at 2:19 pm
I’ve been enjoying reading the post’s of your guests in my rss feeder. It’s a great idea to have different voices give their views and opinions on things.
I enjoyed reading this post of yours too. God to hear you’re settling in. You’ve given me some food for thought regarding my own plans to move to India. That’ll be a culture shock and a half.
.-= Edward Beaman´s last blog ..Buying Toy Boxes – 5 Considerations Before Purchase =-.
August 23rd, 2009 at 2:45 pm
So glad you are enjoying Germany keep the honeymoon stage going.
.-= Petergaye S. Kisielewicz/Yahgie´s last blog ..Long live happiness =-.
August 23rd, 2009 at 3:05 pm
Hey lady!! Congratulations and how exciting that you moved to Germany!! I moved to Vienna Austria from California almost 2 years ago (German is my first language thanks to my parents) and I’ve gotten settled but I know what the transition is like. I really recommend finding an expat network in the city that you live. Here are the ones I know about: http://www.internations.com and http://www.eurocircle.com. There are sooo many people living outside their native country and they are all truly amazing and inspirational (and an excellent support network). Good luck!! I love your work!
August 23rd, 2009 at 3:23 pm
Hello Holly,
I usually comment on your other blog, but I felt the need to comment your last post here. First of all, thank you for the guest bloggers, I really enjoyed reading them! I didn’t know a lot of them, so that was really nice to get to know more bloggers and blogs :)
Thank you also for your words and inspiration. I am from France and my dream was to move to Germany at one time or another of my life. After finishing my studies, I spent 3 years in Brussels, then I finally accomplished my dream and moved to Hanover 6 years ago. I still enjoy the honeymoon after all this time, despite some discouraging moments when I didn’t know if I would be able to find a job or adapt to my new life (although i speak German fluently). I have to say the most annoying part was paperwork! I was glad my now husband helped me through this all, he was my only support at that time. If you need any help with paperwork, translations (also from French ;) ) or anything, I would be glad to help you!
If you are looking for foreign food, the Edeka supermarket in the basement floor of Kaufhof (at the main train station) has a large choice. This is where I usually find some typical French food when I’m in need of it ;)
PS: I don’t know Belmandel, will have to check that!
August 23rd, 2009 at 3:46 pm
This sounds great, a dream comming true! I will have my dream in my mind, maybe it will come true one day!
Have a nice day!
Anna-Karin
.-= Anna-Karin Hedberg´s last blog ..Blommor i Trädgårdsföreningen =-.
August 23rd, 2009 at 6:09 pm
Thank you for the inspiring post and sharing encouraging words. :)
Yes I’m enjoying your guests very much! It’s wonderful to read and see what people hold close to their hearts. Holly, I’m wondering if it would be possible to continue the guests blog?
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August 23rd, 2009 at 7:06 pm
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August 23rd, 2009 at 7:10 pm
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I’ve been blogging about life abroad for the last year, and I’m excited to see how the coming year inspires and changes your worldview! Just to let you know, peanut butter isn’t a big deal anywhere but North America. But in Europe they have those giant jars of Nutella, which is heaven enough. I wish I could import those to Japan. Neither peanut butter nor Nutella is a food staple on this side of the globe!
Best wishes on your new expat life! I raise a glass of sake in your honor.
.-= Laurel J´s last blog ..Artsy Fartsy Sycamore Street Press =-.
August 23rd, 2009 at 8:13 pm
i am a new reader… but loving the blog and thanks for an inspirational post! doesn’t hurt us all to be reminded to dream!
.-= mary-kathryn´s last blog ..breakfast. lunch. dinner. =-.
August 23rd, 2009 at 8:14 pm
Thanks, Holly. This was especially inspiring to read on Sunday night before another week begins. You always know just what to say to encourage your friends! You’re a true inspiration. Have fun as you continue to settle into your new home and new adventure overseas!
.-= LD´s last blog ..NY Gift Show Re-Cap: Lighting Round-Up =-.
August 24th, 2009 at 1:01 am
Thanks for this lovely post, Holly, it was so inspiring! I actually feel more energetic than 10 minutes ago and feel really positive, amazing what a little sharing can do!
ps It’s funny how you’ll soon get used to all those German products and be desperately missing those when you next travel!
.-= Lana´s last blog ..Dreamy work place =-.
August 24th, 2009 at 2:17 am
Good to hear your advice – its great to be reminded of these things as sometimes your dreams seem so far away it can be hard to even make that first step!
Hope you’ve had a great weekend x x
.-= Nicola´s last blog ..Gorgeous handmade ceramics =-.
August 24th, 2009 at 2:33 am
Noli – You can find Belmandel in Rewe over in the List (on Rühmkorffstraße, Lister Platz stop on the u-bahn). It’s in the aisle nearest to the bread bins. Look on the lower shelves where you find Nutella. They have Peanut Butter too. Spread PB on toast and a layer of Belmadel and I tell you, it’s amazing. You can top that with a layer of banana slices. Heavenly!
August 24th, 2009 at 2:34 am
Sabine – Thank you for those links! ;)
August 24th, 2009 at 4:29 am
How right you are Holly. My birth family was awful and my experience of childhood was not good. I knew that I wanted something different and set out to create that.
I had no idea how to do it, but forty years ago it really depended on the right husband. When I found a man that fitted the requirements I fell for him and we were married. Now, all those years down the line I have two well educated, well adjusted children. I live a life I only dreamed about – not a wealthy life, but comfortable. I have choice over where I live and what I do in my retirement. I got myself an education as an adult and became a graduate. Was it easy? No. Was it worth the effort? Yes.
You know what, when my mother became old and needed help it was me she came to and I gave her what I needed. Maybe when she was young she was overloaded and couldn’t cope. She was never able to see that the way out was in her own hands. To learn this is the best lesson in life anyone can have.
Thank you.
August 24th, 2009 at 4:32 am
Sorry folks, on re-reading I realised I said I gave my mother what ‘I’ needed – I meant to say what ‘she’ needed, but on reflection perhaps the ‘I’ was right!
August 24th, 2009 at 4:45 am
Very inspirative post and full of very very positive energy!
I enjoyed a lot your guests! I found some ideas and inspiration for my new flat (moved last weekend) , thanks a lot!
Ester
.-= Ester´s last blog ..Brussels or London? =-.
August 24th, 2009 at 6:01 am
Hi Holly, I’ve been popping in to read your blog from time to time but don’t think I’ve ever left a comment. I’m a South African living in England. Was only going to stay for 2 years but went travelling through America where I met my husband (half Irish). So, the 2 years became nearly 10 years and I love it here. Now my dream is to become a textile designer and I work hard at that and ensure that I remain focussed. I have found that my blog has helped to keep me accountable to myself (and others) and it helps me to map out my journey. I love reading about other people finding their passions and following their dreams, it really inspires me so, thank you for this post and best wishes. I find that if I want some goodies from home, you can usually order it over the internet. Best wishes for your new journey!
.-= Rosy Lady´s last blog ..Festival of Quilts 2009 – Part 1 =-.
August 24th, 2009 at 6:48 am
Ah! Someone who understands my world. I just happened upon your website through a design blogging friend here in Austria. My husband and I moved to Graz, Austria at the end of February (3 weeks after getting married!) and we are loving it. Yes, many adjustments…especially the grocery store. The dressing selection is one of the saddest parts. I have found that most stores (in Austria at least) have the little jars of PB. Looking forward to following your blog and new life in Germany! What city? I started a blog when we first moved and it’s been a great tool to keep in touch and stay creative. I start intensive German lessons soon, so hopefully I can find some work after that…although I would love to be able to do interior design one day…or at least blog about it like you! Keep up the good work!
.-= Carolyn´s last blog ..And I think to myself…what a wonderful world. =-.
August 24th, 2009 at 7:32 am
Hi Holly
You and your blog are simply amazing. You are so inspirational and I can see by how you write that you must help and encourage so many people leading so many different lives. Its great that you are so passionate because I don’t think this blog could be as fantastic as it is without that passion. I am loving reading your blog nearly everyday. I’m loving hearing about how you have joined us in Europe. I live in London which I love and have travelled around Europe, but also visited America many many times so I find the PB comment funny. And I agree that Russian dressing is rather nasty.
All of your guest writers have been fantastic. I’m really enjoying your work and theirs.
Thanks Holly, thank you for bringing a smile each day.
Lucy
x
.-= Lucy´s last blog ..In company with Amy Butler =-.
August 24th, 2009 at 8:40 am
Hi!! I hope you had a great weekend too!!
Your blog is amazing, I would LOVE to exchange links with you, please let me know :)
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August 24th, 2009 at 9:06 am
I have enjoyed all your guests’ posts. I love your blog, whether it’s you writing the posts or not!
August 24th, 2009 at 10:55 am
Thank you so much for this post! It is very inspiring and I think I need to rehash my goals in life to move forward.
I’ve also had a very American experience while living in the UK a few years back. I really wanted a peanut butter and jelly sandwich, I looked everywhere in the Tesco Metro in Manchester and couldn’t find peanut butter. I was telling my English friend about it and he suggested I look for peanut butter on the second floor of the store. I didn’t realize there was a second floor and that is where I eventually found the peanut butter.
.-= Michelle´s last blog ..Things I’ve Posted Elsewhere Part 2 =-.
August 24th, 2009 at 12:32 pm
I love your posts like this.
.-= Virginia @ Where You Hang Your Hat´s last blog ..steven gambrel living room. =-.
August 24th, 2009 at 2:33 pm
Thank you for your always inspiring words Holly! I’m a few days late.. but just what I need on a Monday!
August 24th, 2009 at 4:26 pm
What an inspiring post! indeed we should never give up on our dreams.
I’m also an expat that followed my dreams of living in another country.
I didn’t change continent as you did but still changing inside Europe is still a cultural discovering! It has and it still is a very enriching experience! :D
August 24th, 2009 at 7:53 pm
You know that feeling when you finally saw that wee little pot of peanut butter sitting on the shelf like a little jewel? well gorgeous lady, that was the feeling I had when I found you and BYW!!! You’re my Peanut Butter Princess! heehee.
I’m soooo glad you are loving it and truly these posts help me put life into perspective. I love when you remind us to reach for more than what life hands you.
thank you special lady.
xo
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August 25th, 2009 at 3:44 am
peanut butter! thought you might enjoy this, especially the bit about “ignored & mocked almost everywhere else”
http://www.nytimes.com/2009/08/26/dining/26mini.html?ref=dining
August 25th, 2009 at 5:17 am
I cried reading this post. I’m sorry for being not so positive, but I’m having a hard time finding my way, and you realy touched me. thank you for this words.
September 1st, 2009 at 12:29 pm
Hello Holly,
I just got back from vacation on the East Coast and am catching up on reading your blog. This post is a great lift of inspiration to me today. My husband and I are in a transition right now and close to some of our goals. It still seems scary sometimes, but I think I am getting a little better at taking the risks for what I want. Thanks and hope your week is wonderful.
.-= Melissa Allam´s last blog ..Crown of Glory =-.
November 5th, 2009 at 8:39 pm
Dear Holly,
Hi, I’m your reader from Singapore. I love those photos featured in your blog!!
I am searching for ideas for renovating & decorating my new house. And usually I will focus on the photos and skip the words. But something in this entry caught my attention. I love this post. It’s so inspiring!
I don’t think I wanna miss any of your writings now :)
November 2nd, 2011 at 4:11 pm
wow! i don’t usually comment on blogs, but this article speaks to me so much. thanks for the kind words! i so appreciate, and need to hear this right now……